Empathy is the capacity to understand what another person is experiencing from within the other person's frame of reference, ie, the capacity to place oneself in another's shoes.
How it helps- when one is able to see another's point of view, then
1. He does not judge him as good as bad, but sees a person who is acting like he himself does sometimes under those circumstances
2. He doesn't attach nasty motives to other's actions and speech
3. It is very easy to find a common ground, a mutually beneficial solution to all problems, personal, family, social or occupational, resulting in a happy happy solution.
4. One improves the quality of his relationships greatly and forges relationships very easily with each and everyone.
5. A benevolent, compassionate mind
6. Returns fron others in form of affection, appreciation, love
Who can gain:everyone;
*parents- children,
*Husband -wife,
*Mother in law - Daughter in law,
Seller- buyer,
*Parties of a deal or agreement or negotiation. One who explores the benefits of the other party and convinces the other party of the same, will never ever fail in a negotiation.
* superior - subordinate
* parties in a conflict
Therefore Empathy towards one and all, ie all the children of God, is the best of the virtues and it guarantees Success, Happiness, health everything for everyone.
Also,
Emapthy leads to Compassion, Compassion leads to Transformation,
Transformation leads to Self-Realization
Start today my brother.
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