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42 लघु कथाएं! - मेरी पहली पुस्तक आप सभी को समर्पित
The Enlightened (Part-1)
It was well past midnight.
About 2500 yrs, ago the young prince of Kapilvastu (Land of Rishi Kapil), of shakya-kul from Ikshvaku lineage of Survanshi Kshatriyas was wide awake.
He had been standing at the balcony of his palace, for quite a long time, peering at nothing in the darkness.
His mind was made.
All his life he had known life as full of pleasures. However, last week had turned his life upside down.
He had, for the first time, come across the great sufferings of human life ie Sickness, old age and death.
He had learnt, to his shock, that all humans,whether they be mightiest kings, , most breathing beauties or strongest warriors , they all must grow old, be weak, be sick and die.
This revelation has shook his soul. Now, he could not enjoy the pleasures of his youth, seeing the temporal nature of them and the suffering waiting ahead.
His heart was only at some peace after he had met the ascetic who had renunciated the worldly pleasures & attachments and was doing tapa for liberation from death and other miseries of life.
Now , he also had decided to be an ascetic himself and through his tapa seek the remedy of sufferings, not only for himself, but for all mankind.
His father was shocked to hear of his intentions and beside forbidding him, had also arranged for his son to be engulfed in pleasures of wine, women and food as a last resort to change his mind.
This particular night he had fallen asleep after long hours of wine, women and music. When he suddenly wokeup, all were sleeping in tortuous postures all around him. The sight he saw had almost made him cringe. The faces of the greatest beauties of the land which used to enchanted him, now looked almost outright ugly with the twisted sleeping postures, open mouth, dripping saliva and flowing make up.
He was disgusted with his life and now felt sure to go far from all of this and find freedom in solace of the forest. He had to leaving his son and wife behind. However, the remedy he would find would help them also.
He swung from the balcony and walking on rooftops reached the stable, got his horse and soon vanished into darkness.
A fortnight of travelling has passed. He had left his royal clothes, jewels and his horse behind. He had been travelling through forest tracks on foot. At one time he remembered his ancestor Prince Ram who had once left his kingdom and lived as an ascetic for 14 years to honour an oath of his father.
He had passed Rajgriha, the capital of the mighty Magadh Empire and reached the ashram of Rishi Arada on his quest. The Rishi had taken him as a disciple and had taught him the mysteries of mind, soul and universe as well as practices of Dhyana and Tapa. He had visited Rishi Udarkas and learnt under him also.
Now he had arrived at an ashram in the city Gayapuri, named on Rishi Gaya.
He had joined 5 Ascetics and alongwith them started practicing the hardest Tapa. The practices requires starvation for days, sitting in extreme temperatures and other very painful hardships.
Now, 6 year had passed and he didn't find himself any further in his quest for knowledge.
He was now very weak from abstaining from food,just skin and bones.
Now he felt that this weakness can only be a detriment and the body and mind should not be so weak as to obstruct his quest.
Unsure, he rose from his tapa, and to the criticism of his 5 fellow ascetics, started wandering.
He passed the river Falgu and sat under a fig tree.
He had been offered Milk and rice by Sujata, a kind girl of the village and the subsequent energy rush in his starved body and fading consciousness and given him a new vigor and clarity of purpose.
He had made a firm resolute of rising only after realizing the true nature of live and universe.
It was past midnight. Deep in meditation, his resolve was getting weak under constant challenges by his desires, fears, weaknesses from depths of own subconscious.
After a seemingly very long and tenous struggle to maintain his pointed concentration on his quest during his dhyana, suddenly all the hurricanes in his mind vanished & the truth, as if , lit every corner of his mind with bright warm light.
He had it. He had learnt the truth of life. He was now enlightened.
He was no longer just Siddharth, now he was an arhat (one who has gained insight into the true nature of existence), Jina (Ultimate victor), Gautam (Remover of Darkness) & Buddha (Enlightened) .
Later people would revere him Tathagat (Who came thus) & Bhagwan (Blessed one) also.
Free from his bonds he could also remember his previous births as Bodhisattva (Individual on path of Bodhi-Chitta, awakening).
Finally he knew the mystery of life and suffering.
(Continued ....)
Viral Ideologies!
Who?
Life Time Mind, Externalize
Hacking The Clock Or The Non Linear Time!
Can nothing be done to slow the time even minutely! Can a few minutes be added? Will we ever come out of this shortness of Time?
Answer is 'Yes'.
The secret lies in our minds. Time has one more diamension, present in our minds.
For example, imagine a 100 m sprint. A Casual watcher who is bored, daydreaming or talking would almost fail to notice anything except the start or finish. An avid watcher would watch the race as it happens but at a very fast speed, too fast to watch all contestents. But the sprinter, for him the time slows down before the race starts, remains slow and becomes slower as his chest touches the ribbon. The experince of these persons of the same 10 seconds quite differ. For the casual watcher, these 10 seconds did not exist at all, for the avid watcher these were like 10 seconds and for the sprinter the time almost took half a minute as per his own perception. In sports many a time a batsman, bowler, golf player or football player finds himself watching the ball frame by frame, almost as if in a slow motion.
This is the power of concentration. The deeper the concentration, the slower is the time. Vice versa, the more fragmented the focus, the lesser aware the mind, the faster is the time. Amphetamines and other stimulats raise the wakefulness to this end.
So, by reducing the extra worries and random thoughts awareness can increase.
A strange unknown environment raises concentration or awareness and then the time slows down.
Another well known example, while running and falling the time slows down.
This is the value of strangeness.
In fact enlightemnt is nothing but a moment of strangeness after one or more lifetimes of query, search and meditation.
The strangeness is also the reason, that travelling helps so much in this query. When going through unknown areas and meeting strange people, one is in a deeper awareness,can question, observe and think over the same things, that he would miss entirely at his own home.
Another exaple of this is that while we can notice all the cobwebs and spiders in the drawing room of a host we are visiting, we do do not notice much larger ones in our own drawing room.
So, the secret of the time is the awareness. By keeping our minds lighter loaded and externalising our minds, we can improve our awareness and then we can be far more efficient, productive and successful. Hours, Days, months and Life will all become longer in your own frame of reference resulting in success and thereby happiness
Some suggestions to this purpose are organizing things and routine, cutting down TV time, being online once in a day or only as per need rather than the present 'always on' system, Reducing the 'multitasking' as far as possible and greatest of all, by meditating.
Good luck to you in developing awareness and harnessing the most previous resource of time!
Anxiety is Actually Ignorance!
Being a good me rather that a bad him!
Faith, Belief, Religion, Spritualism, Adhyatm, Dharma & Hinduism : At a Glance
A. Belief :-
Definition:
Oxford :
"An acceptance that something exists or is true, especially one without proof."
"Trusting something without proof."
Definition:
Oxford: "A strongly held belief."
Definition:
"An institution that mostly sets itself as definer, custodian & ultimate authority of the faith."
"From L. religionem (nom. religio) "respect for what is sacred, reverence for the gods, sense of right, moral obligation, sanctity", "(obligation, the bond between man and the gods") is derived from the Latin religiō(Meaning: to bind), the ultimate origins of which are obscure."
Wikipedia :
"Spiritualism is a religious movement based on the belief that the spirits of the dead exist and have both the ability and the inclination to communicate with the living. "
Adhyayan +Aatm ie study of self,
- The truth of universe is within self,
- Objective is realization of universe through self Realization.
Wikipedia :
"Key concept with multiple meanings in Indian Religions like Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, Sikhism and others. There is no single-word translation for dharma in Western languages.
In Buddhism, dharma means "cosmic law and order", and is also applied to the teachings of Buddha. In Buddhist philosophy, dhamma/dharma is also the term for "phenomena".
Dharma in Jainism refers to the teachings of tirthankara (Jina) and the body of doctrine pertaining to the purification and moral transformation of human beings. For Sikhs, the word dharm means the path of righteousness and proper religious practice."
Wikipedia:
"Hinduism is an Indian religion and dharma, or way of life,widely practised in the Indian subcontinent and parts of Southeast Asia. Hinduism has been called the oldest religion in the world, and some practitioners and scholars refer to it as Sanātana Dharma, "the eternal tradition", or the "eternal way", beyond human history. Scholars regard Hinduism as a fusion or synthesis of various Indian cultures and traditions, with diverse roots and no founder."
Hinduism does not have a "unified system of belief encoded in a declaration of faith or a creed", but is rather an umbrella term comprising the plurality of religious phenomena of India.
Wikipedia :
"Starting with the Persian and Greek references to the land of the Indus in the 1st millennium BCE through the texts of the medieval era, the term Hindu implied a geographic, ethnic or cultural identifier for people living in the Indian subcontinent around or beyond the Sindhu (Indus) river. By the 16th century, the term began to refer to residents of the subcontinent who were not Turkic or Muslims."
"Hindu", Buddhist, Jain, Sikh
Reincarnation,
Karma,
Moksha,
Advait
&
Above all "Omkar"
In other words : All living beings /things are forms of same indivisible Brahman.
Plurality: The belief that there can be multiple ways of religion/spirituality/faith and all may co-exist together.
Opposite: Binarism, the belief that there is only one true religion , an essential belief of Abrahamic religions .
Conclusion:
Not For Me!
His eyes slowly opened.
To his amazement, he was finding himself himself in a unique, magical and serene place.
He was lying on a cloud.
The ambience had was a different slight bluish diffused light.
He was feeling as if in a dream and trying to understand his environment.
He recalled his most recent memory of him lying in a bed of some hospital and Doctors and Medical staff moving around him in their uniforms. He recalled himself being in acute pain also.
Now, where was he? Which was this place? Must be a dream?
He slowly rose and stood up. Suddenly he heard a voice calling his name. He turned to find an old man at a distance, with a white flowing beard and a face which was as if glowing, sitting on a golden throne, beckoning him to come to himself.
He approached the old man in heightened amazement and asked in a quivering voice :
"Who are you? Where am I?"
The old man said "I am your God. You are with me."
He said: "You mean I am in heaven!"
God: "Nope. U were in heaven earlier, when u were alive."
He asked in a shock : "What? And Hell!?"
God: "That was also there."
He:"What? Meaning?"
God: "That, ur life, was everything. U cud make it Heaven or Hell also. If u were happy, then it was heaven, if you were sad it was hell."
Man: "Lord, What r u saying? I was told that u are the most merciful and award the good people by bringing them to heaven."
God: "And where did I say or write so? It's u humans who say and write such things. And where is the mercy in giving something after death?"
Man: " Then what about those pleasures of heaven like golden Palaces, beautiful consorts, delicious cuisine, finest wines.. Such pleasures for an eternity? "
God :" Eternity? Meaning millions, Billions, trillions of ur years? "
" Forget such an infinitely long period, can u enjoy the luxurious pleasures of most decelicious food etc, even for one month, without being fed up of it? Can u eat ur most favorite food for three days consistently? Even ur most favorite food would taste like poison to u by the 4th day. Then any pleasure would feel like pain of hell in long run or no? Also, just think about how it can be justified to award or torture someone for "eternity" for his/her act in a life of 1, 10 or even 100 years? "
Man:" But Lord that's u taking our test about who is Good and who is Bad, no? Good ppl go to heaven and Bad ppl go to the hell. "
God:" Really? Ok take it this way, you all believe I am all knowing and almighty also, or not?
If I am all knowing then what's there that's unknown to me and that I need to conduct a test to find out? "
Man:" Then why did u make sin and virtue? "
God:" Why I would I, God, make such thing as sin?"
Man:" Yes lord. It wasn't you, it was Satan who created Sin, in rebellion against you . "
God:" But as per you it was I who created Satan, because, as per you, nothing happens without my will, no?
Man:" But satan rebelled, Didn't he Lord?"
God: "Could this alleged rebellion have happened without my will, my being almighty and all? Or cud I have been unaware of the future while making him, being omniscient either?"
Man: "Lord I am highly confused!"
God: " It's simple. You have beliefs that your almighty and all knowing God created Satan, who created sin in rebellion with him,no?
Now these beliefs are contradictory as well as mutually exclusive & therfore cant all be true at the same time. Therefore there can't be no such thing as a God-Satan duality or if Satan exists then there can't be no such thing as a God. And if everything happens in the world by my will, why would I torture u for an eternity for being an agency of my own will?"
Man:"Then these books I have been following my whole life?"
God:" I never wrote a Book and why would I need a Book or a person or any medium to get to you. I should have given everything to you when I created you or not? So I did. I gave you wisdom, rationale, distinction of Good and Bad. Now live ur life freely with happiness. Tell me did u feel right when giving pain to others?"
Man:" Not at all, but while giving pain to others, I was thinking of myself as fighting being your soldier, so that those who don't believe in you are eliminated and your kingdom should be everywhere. "
God:" When I alone is the creator, father and master of whole infinite universe of Billions of galaxies stars, planets, then where is the question of wars & kingdoms on specks of planets to be won and lost?
Man: "Then plz tell me, what is there at all after death?"
God:" Nothing! Death is the end, period."
Man:"Nothing after death? Then what's the objective of living the life?"
God: "The only objective of the life is to live this beautiful wonderful life with joy, happiness and bliss. What could be a greater objective!"
Man: "OoooooKkkkkkk! Now I see, but Plz tell me. All these religions, do they all worship you actually?"
God: "Only those worship me who love all humans, animals, beings, things i.e. all my children."
Man : "Is this form your true form?"
God: "Whatever you form u see me in your mind and imagination that is my form. Otherwise all animals, things, you yourself are my forms. Why should I need a form like a human or why should that only be my form."
Man:"Lord, if there is no Heaven or Hell, where do u live? What is this place?"
God: " I am everywhere. In each and every living being and thing, in every particle. And this place here where we are talking is in your own mind."
Man: "Then can I talk to you anytime?"
God: "Why not? Whenever u in a peaceful state ask your mind a question, you will get my answer too."
Man: "God then isnt it wrong that People are fighting and slaughtering each other over difference in Belifs, religions, scriptures etc? Why don't u do something?"
God:" I already did. I gave everyone wisdom and thinking capability. Do they use it? They simply follow whatever they see their parents, elders, peers doing. Why don't they apply their own minds to what they are told. "
Man:" Then how come u talked to me today then?"
God:" Because u had conflicts and grave doubts about what you were doing. That's why I am asking your question from inside your own mind. "
Man:" Now I get it. Now if I go back, I tell spread your message to everyone, all my life. "
God :" No. You didn't get it even now. Don't live and do things for me. Live for urself with joy. Love others, love the world, love the life, love urself. Not for me but because it feels Good. "
Man:" Oh! Now I see it. Wonderful is your creation."
He bowed in deference. When he rose there was no one around. It was dark. He had a feeling of falling, falling continuously for long, then he passed out.
When he again opened his eyes, this time he found himself in an ICU of an hospital. His wife, his kids had gathered around him. His family was crying as well as smiling.
They told him, he had an accident an dhis heart had stopped. Doctors declared him dead and were going to keep him in the morgue when suddenly there was a spasm in his body and his breath returned.
All were taking it as a God's Miracle.
He smiled and embraced his family.
When coming out of the hospital he saw an old man cleaning the stairs. The old man smiled at him and went on with his work.

