Relax..

Everybody feels like a  Misfit at times including the most social people of us,

Everbody rues his lost chances even the most successful,

Everybody feels not beautiful enough and stressed and self conscious about the microscopic irregularities on his or her face including the film stars ,

Everybody has his serious doubts on his actions even those who lead great organisations and nations,

Everyone is scared of tomorrow, everyone,

Deep inside everyone is lonely,

Everyone find him/herself underapreciated,

Everyone is suffering his pains, guilts and rues,

Everyone lies awake at night at times ,

 So just relax..

Better Me - Wu Wei

To be a happier, better adjusted, calmer ,more mature and more productive person, we don't have to be someone else who we see as our role model, its impossible also by the way. What we need to do is to become a slightly better version of ourselves and keep the process going on gradually.

An eggshell broken from outside is not likely to give birth to a healthy and complete life. It has to be broken from inside when the life to be born is ready ,at that particular time ,to come forward and breath in the air. Till then it has to lie still inside the egg and let the transformation take place, at its own pace.

Similarly we also have to keep visualising the image of the better form of ourselves we want to evolve into and let the internal  process go on step by step , gradually, over time, without taking load or hating the person we presently are, without hurry and it shall surely happen.

We are good enough at present and some day tomorrow we shall be still little better and so one ...

It's the way of the Wu Wei, the effortless effort of Taoism!