Balance is the key word. The gate to perfect life.
Equillibirium between extremes of,
1. Obsession and Renunciation,
2. Expenditures and savings,
3. Plannings and actions,
4. Isolation and Interactions,
5. Pleasure and pain,
6. Impulses and thoughts,
7. Rigid beliefs and no beliefs,
8. For children, Excess Love and excess strictness,
9. Excess physical activity and excess mental activity,
10. Excess attchemnt and excess detachment.
And when one finds himself in such a balance, then actually he starts to finds himself!